Nobody Is Perfect

 I was reading one article yesterday and saw that some people in the comment wrote that they don't like themselves. Indeed, there were a lot of such comments. So, today I've decided to write about it. There are so many negative comments about people's appearence. They're talking about themselves as they think they're ugly. Nowadays, one thing that is hard for people to do is to love themselves. And it's really sad. I feel myself so helpless but if you're one of those people,  you need to understand that you are beautiful the way you are.

Everyone has its flaws. Nobody is perfect. Besides Beyonce and Channing Tatum. I'm kidding:)
Everyone has something that is not happy about. You're what you're, like you don't have to be someone else or try to look like someone else. Why just you can't be happy the way you look or see yourself? 

There are so much pressure, you know, media, celebrities. What do they wear? How to look like that? Have they put on weight? Have they lost weight? But it really should not matter. And that's where those negative stuff comes from.


"Self-love" teaches full acceptence. This is when you allow yourself to be the way you are, when you are happy with yourself. Someone does not like something in her/ his body, someone in character. Of course, you can afford to change something. For example, lose a few pounds, or learn how to be more courageous person. But the first step is the love to yourself and full acceptance.

 Self-love will help you in relationships with other people. If you treat yourself good, others will also start to change their attitude to you. People feel what you think about yourself and reflect that. If you love yourself, then others will love you too.

 Don't try to change yourself to please somebody else. You need to accept the way you look. Every person is beautiful, and you're too. Don't forget it! But if it is really hard for you to accept it, instead of being obsessed with the topic: "I'm not beautiful!" you better improve youself. Try something new, open life for yourself. Say "Yes!" more often to the things you've never tried (but no drugs, friends). Read more, travel more, make new friends and never give up. The more you improve yourself, the more interesting person you become. 

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